The Beginner's Guide to Sex Toys

Navigating the vast world of sex toys can be daunting, to say the least. Whether buying for yourself or someone special, it’s time to get sex toy savvy.

Want to know which sex toys to choose for a happier, more fulfilling sex life? Or maybe you’re curious about expanding your toy horizons but aren’t always sure about what goes where.

If you’re confused about cock rings, vexed by vibrators, or maybe baffled by butt plugs, then read on to discover the ins and outs of the wonderful world of sex toys just waiting to be discovered.

Why do people use sex toys?

Sex toys can add a whole new dimension of excitement and pleasure to both solo and couple’s play, no matter your gender or sexual orientation. Many people use sex toys to:

• Experiment with different types of play and sensations
• Discover, explore, and expand on sexual preferences
• Achieve stronger, more intense, and/or blended orgasms
• Help with medical issues such as erectile dysfunction
• Revolutionise and optimise sexual happiness

Dildos

The OG sex toy. Dildos are insertable toys that offer straightforward satisfaction for anyone who enjoys internal stimulation. You can use them both vaginally and anally (although we’d recommend a good clean between uses if you choose both).

The wonderful thing about dildos is you can get them in countless shapes, sizes, and aesthetics. From long and girthy to petite and beginner-friendly, there’s plenty to choose from. Many dildos feature a suction cup or flared base, making them safe for anal use and harness-compatible.

Vibrators

Vibrators are sex toys that vibrate, coming in a huge array of shapes and sizes - from classic realistic shapes to curved stimulators, rabbits, bullets, wands, and more. They offer sweet rumbly stimulation to just about any erogenous zone imaginable.

Whether you’re eager to please the clitoris, G-spot, P-spot, vagina, rectum, testicles, vulva, or a combination of hot spots, there’s a vibrator style out there that can suit your fancy. For first-timers, we highly recommend wand massagers for their powerful external delights.

Love Eggs & Ben Wa Balls

Discreet and sexy, Ben Wa balls (or Kegel balls) sit inside the vagina to give your pelvic floor a workout. They strengthen vaginal muscles, leading to stronger orgasms and improved control.

Love eggs are egg-shaped vibrating toys that offer G-spot and vaginal stimulation. Often remote-controlled or app-compatible, they are ideal for couples’ play, whether in the bedroom or long distance.

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are conical-shaped toys that create a sensation of fullness and pressure. All anal plugs have flared bases for safety. They can be used to gently stretch before bigger play or as an erotic experience in themselves, intensifying orgasms as you squeeze against them.

Anal Beads

Anal beads consist of a trio or more of smooth beads that slowly increase in size. They give a "filled-up" feeling and can transform a regular orgasm into an earth-shattering one when pulled out just before climax.

Strap-Ons

Strap-ons are great for all types of couples, regardless of anatomy or gender identity. They are primarily used for interactive penetration. Kits that include a harness and compatible dildos are a popular starting point for newbies.

Cock Rings

A cock ring (or stamina ring) prevents blood from flowing back down the penis, providing longer-lasting, harder erections. Vibrating varieties can heighten stimulation for both partners during penetrative sex.

Cock and ball rings (double rings) offer all-over constriction that many find even more stimulating. Always apply with plenty of lube for a comfortable, snug fit.

Male Masturbators

Strokers and sleeves provide out-of-this-world stimulation along the length of the penis. From the iconic Fleshlight to high-tech warming and vibrating models, they can be used solo or to spice up partnered foreplay.